Showing posts with label worker. Show all posts
Showing posts with label worker. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

7 Lies Employers Use To Trick You Into Working For Them

I got this letter from a LinkedIn reader:
Dear J.T.,
Why do employers lie to get you to take the job? The last two companies I've worked for have done the same thing. They promise me things, but once I'm in the job, they don't deliver. I'm tired of getting taken advantage of and don't now how to make it stop. What am I doing wrong?
This happens a lot. And frankly, it's going to get even worse as the talent shortage increases and companies play dirty to get candidates to take their jobs. Here's an article which explains this growing trend...
Why Some Employers Have Rose-Colored Recruiting Glasses
While some employers are starting to properly reveal their Employment Brands, it could take a while for others to recognize the need to accurately convey what it's like to work for their company - and that will hurt their ability to hire effectively.
For example...
Companies that pull the bait-n-switch (like what the poor professional experienced above), are usually desperate to improve their troubled company - and assume hiring new talent will fix their problem. They make promises to themselves, "If we can just get the best talent in here and turn things around, we can actually make good on all these promises we're making while recruiting them." In their minds, hiring you will give them the results they need to make those promises a reality. Unfortunately, hiring alone can't fix a failing company or a broken corporate culture. Before you know it, the company is making excuses why they won't deliver on those promises - and may even try to make you feel bad for asking. As if it was your fault!? Sound familiar?
7 Potential Lies Told In The Hiring Process
Any time a company makes the following claims, you should push back and try to get more information before assuming it's the truth. While some can deliver, others can't - and it's up to you to figure out which ones are sincere. The potential lies are:
  1. There's a lot of opportunity for advancement.
  2. The bonus structure will double your income.
  3. Your territory is protected and we won't change it.
  4. You'll get extensive training.
  5. You'll have scheduling flexibility and can work from home on occasion.
  6. We'll hire you some help when it gets busy.
  7. Once you fix this problem/department/project, etc., you'll get to work on something new and exciting.
In order to avoid being taken advantage of, the secret is to learn to master the very same technique recruiters have been taught to spot a fake in an interview.
Use "Reverse Behavioral Interviewing" To Reveal Employer's True Self
Behavioral interviewing is a technique recruiters use to help determine the personality, aptitude, and true experience level of a candidate. They're historically open-ended questions designed to force candidates to provide more detailed answers to questions that address things like their:
  • ability to work in teams
  • work style
  • track record of success
  • ability to overcome adversity
  • capacity to cope with change
Recruiters use behavioral interviewing to explore candidates' depth of knowledge and ability to answer the questions in a way that matches the goals, values, and needs of the organization. [A free tool with some of the most common behavioral interview questions can be found here.]
They're also trying to identify and eliminate any liars, under-performers, or high-maintenance candidates. Hiring is expensive. Behavioral interviewing is meant to help minimize bad hires.
What If You Could Do The Same?
You can!
When your turn comes to ask questions in the interview (usually, at the end of the conversation), you can prepare a list of open-ended behavioral questions that will force the employer to articulate more clearly how they deliver on the promises they're making. For example, check these seven questions as they relate to the potential lies above:
  1. Can you give me an example of someone who was hired in the last two years to a similar role who has already advanced in their career here? In particular, can you explain what they did to make that happen?
  2. Can I meet someone in the company who has doubled their income with the bonus structure? I'd like to learn more about how they accomplished that.
  3. I know territories can change as the business changes, what do you put into place to ensure this never happens? Is there a written legal contact of some sort?
  4. Can you break down the formal training versus the informal training I will receive? And, may I speak to someone who has been in this role a year to see how they best used the training to their advantage?
  5. What is the procedure for requesting to work from home? Can I speak to someone who uses this scheduling flexibility so I can learn what he/she is doing to make sure she is meeting the company's goals when working remotely?
  6. Can you share with me a recent example of someone who was hired on to help due to growth. What is the company's process for identifying and funding additional headcount?
  7. Can you share with me a recent example of someone who was hired on to fix a problem and has now gone on to a new project? What did they do to ensure they were given the opportunity to move on?
Each of the questions above are positively framed to show your sincere interest in the company's approach to delivering on these promises. It's up to them to give you an answer that sounds accurate and compelling. If they start to dance around the subject, or don't have a clear cut answer, you know they aren't telling the truth.
Difference Between Working "For" An Employer & Working "With" Them
Learning how to reverse behavioral interview a potential employer is a very important step in becoming a more sophisticated and successful job seeker. When you realize you want to work "with" employers and not "for" them, you can begin to approach the job search with your eyes wide open. You deserve the best opportunities, and that means improving your interview skills so you can spot the less-than-ideal employers. Use the technique above to help you get better at finding the right fit for you!

You Will Never Find Work/Life Balance

You have been lied to and so have I. Blame our parents, teachers, and the last 20 years of business gurus for their deception. We have been aiming so hard for success -- under the guise of "work/life balance." There's just one problem: we've been grasping for the wrong trophy.

Let me share a little secret -- there is no "work/life balance."
I have tried to stay quiet on this topic for some time, but I can't any longer. For what seems like the 98th time since I co-founded Aha! (which is product roadmap software), someone asked me today, "How are you able to balance your work and life?" It's just a more elegant way of asking, "Do you work really hard?"
Of course I do. And I love every minute of it.
If you believe what you read, nirvana would be achieving perfect harmony in our lives between the version of ourself that toils and the other parts that don't. But what if real harmony comes from being happy in all areas of life?
My dear friend, Emily Hall, is the CEO of the strategy consulting firm Olive Grove. She recently pointed out that the fundamental problem with "work/life balance" conversations are that they assume these two things are oppositional. The starting argument is that work and life are in conflict with one another.
This is incorrect -- work is life, and life is defined by our efforts. This argument assumes that work makes us fundamentally unhappy, and only "life" can balance out that misery. It doesn't have to be like this.
To find joy in all aspects of life, we need to start talking about a new concept. I judge myself on my ability to achieve sustainable happiness, not "work/life balance."
If you remain unconvinced that we should change the conversation, consider the following:
You have one life
We have one life and we should fill it with what is most important to us. We are told to focus on achieving a positive "work/life balance," but rarely stop to question if that's what really matters. We should check in with ourselves even once per week to track what we do and how happy it makes us. If we did, we might realize that although we appear to be successful, we don't actually do much of what makes us happy. "Work/life balance" doesn't solve this problem; optimizing for sustainable happiness does.

Balance has no value
"Work/life balance" is an empty goal. It's a state of equilibrium, but nothing more. Our focus should not be to balance work with our life; it should be to design our lives so that we purposefully do more of what makes us happy. When we regularly engage what makes us happy, the feeling carries over into everything we do. This makes us more productive people -- better partners, parents, and professionals.

If you love it, do more of it
Fill your life with what you love. Fill it with your passions, family who you care about, and positive experiences. Sometimes, this involves small changes (such as taking a midday walk). Other times, bigger changes must be made (such as leaving a bad job or lackluster relationship that cannot be fixed). Make deposits every day and discard things that bring you down whenever you can.

Our ultimate goal should be sustainable happiness. By sustainable I mean that you must be able to continue to enjoy what you do for long periods of time -- and it must not impact other's ability to find their own joy. This inherently rules out quick-hitting highs and destructive behaviors.
I understand that sustainable happiness is not always possible. Some people are struggling with poverty and others are ill. Many people do not even have the fundamental freedom to pursue their own higher purpose or must serve others first. But for those who are free and can make intentional choices to be sustainably happy, the rewards are uplifting and lasting.
Sustainable happiness is a journey, because we all have lows. And life is unpredictable and even cruel at times. Reaching and holding on to this level of self-content is not easy to achieve, but it should be our ultimate aspiration.